Today in this post I will be discussing, living in a family of non believers. It can be tough to follow Christ when your in a Christian family but to follow him in a non Christian family can be even more tough. How do you keep it up when everyone else around you doesn't believe the same thing? That's definitely a tough one but there is actually a really big piece of advice I can give.
1. The Big One | be the example
The best thing you can do is Be The Example. Now, I know you're thinking "how can I be an example if no one wants to hear what I have to say?" Its not about getting attention but if you do what is right then it can encourage others to do the same. I know this is harder than it seems but people can see a lot just by your love. God doesn't want you to turn your whole family into Christians (that's his job) but he does want you to show them the right way by showing love. Another good way to show them is to show joy in times of sorry and problem.
A lot of this stuff is very hard to follow but if you ever need anyone to talk to or need any advice, please email us! We're looking for more topics to give advice on so please give us ideas by commenting or emailing us.
Friday, December 1, 2017
Passions and differences
Some of us have differences and things that we like that others don't. Sometimes we have a certain view and most people seem to disagree with it. It can be a challenge to keep "walking the same way" when others judge us for it. They give us reasons why it is wrong. Here is some tips to take into consideration when it seems like no one agrees with your view.
1. figure out why; see their perspective
sometimes people will disagree with your view because it may not be a logical view. Try to look at it their way and find out why they see things the way they do.
2. know the facts
many people say "know what you believe and why you believe it" and this is a very true quote. If you have a certain view that you want to share with other people but you don't know why you see things that way then it does no good. Example: if someone came up with a plan than their friend (s) would ask them why they think their plan would work. If they couldn't find any reasons to back it up then no one would believe them and see it their way.
3. deal with it
sometimes people just aren't going to see things the way you do no matter what you try. Sometimes you have to just keep seeing it the way you do and let others see it that way.
4. find others who are the same
So I know that last one sucked. No one ever wants to hear "Just Deal With It" but there is good news! All hope isn't lost because you can try to find others who support your perspective. Try to find people who see it the way you do. Remember: not all people will see it your way and they do not have to. It may be hard to find someone but don't get discouraged.
5. perspective: be the example
If you want someone to see things the way you do then you have to show them why they should see it that way. Example:
God has allowed me to learn that everything that happens has a reason and we shouldn't be discouraged when bad happens because its part of his plan. There are times when I stay positive even though everyone around me is grumpy or negative. It can be very hard to keep your way when others are doing the opposite but its about being the example and doing what you know is right.
Don't ever give up your perspective just because everyone else sees it differently. Please email us if you ever want to talk or have any questions. We are always available! Good luck dear friend.
1. figure out why; see their perspective
sometimes people will disagree with your view because it may not be a logical view. Try to look at it their way and find out why they see things the way they do.
2. know the facts
many people say "know what you believe and why you believe it" and this is a very true quote. If you have a certain view that you want to share with other people but you don't know why you see things that way then it does no good. Example: if someone came up with a plan than their friend (s) would ask them why they think their plan would work. If they couldn't find any reasons to back it up then no one would believe them and see it their way.
3. deal with it
sometimes people just aren't going to see things the way you do no matter what you try. Sometimes you have to just keep seeing it the way you do and let others see it that way.
4. find others who are the same
So I know that last one sucked. No one ever wants to hear "Just Deal With It" but there is good news! All hope isn't lost because you can try to find others who support your perspective. Try to find people who see it the way you do. Remember: not all people will see it your way and they do not have to. It may be hard to find someone but don't get discouraged.
5. perspective: be the example
If you want someone to see things the way you do then you have to show them why they should see it that way. Example:
God has allowed me to learn that everything that happens has a reason and we shouldn't be discouraged when bad happens because its part of his plan. There are times when I stay positive even though everyone around me is grumpy or negative. It can be very hard to keep your way when others are doing the opposite but its about being the example and doing what you know is right.
Don't ever give up your perspective just because everyone else sees it differently. Please email us if you ever want to talk or have any questions. We are always available! Good luck dear friend.
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