When They Don't Love

We all want to be loved in the way that we want to be loved but what happens when others don't/can't love us that way? What do we do? For this topic I'm gonna get a bit personal. I have something called C- PTSD which is trauma caused over a period of time such as childhood. My parents love me and theirs no doubt but they haven't been emotionally dependable therefore I suffer from co-dependency. Loneliness is something I struggle with because I've never really been able to depend on anybody which makes it very hard. For me this makes loving others very hard. "what do you do then?" you may be thinking. It definitely takes time and patience and a willing attitude. I have to desire to change the way I am and how I handle my situation and that's what you have to do. You have control of how you treat others but you cant control how they treat you, so just love them! And know they mean well.